Motherhood is such a test of our resolve and our ability to trust in our baby and ourselves.

I think perhaps you could start looking into some affirmations, and maybe even create a little baby/birth alter to create a space to go when worries overtake you...I found it really helpful even after DD was born, because the worrying doesn't stop!!

Maybe you could write up some affirmations to read, such as "Surrender to the process" and "I trust in my body and my baby" to reassure yourself that there really isn't anything you CAN do, but try and ride this wave of uncertainty.

I am not a fan of frequent scans etc, because I think they just add to the anxiety (for me personally). Instead I have found it easier to just quietly listen to my baby and trust things will be ok...whatever the outcome.

Bit of a ramble, but just know you are certainly not alone, even those of us without losses experience this kind of anxiety.